Family Lawyer, Divorce Lawyer, Accredited Family Mediator in Waterloo Region
Over two decades of dedicated and responsive legal services to individuals and families in Kitchener-Waterloo, Cambridge, Guelph and across Ontario
Helping families in Waterloo Region and across Ontario reduce conflict and resolve legal disputes
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Managing Partner/Lawyer Senior Partner with over 20 years of experience Facilitator/Negotiator and Advocate Accredited Family Mediator (OAFM) Accredited Intergenerational (Elder) Mediator (OAFM) Child-Inclusive Roster Mediator (OAFM/NavOn) Alumnus of the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School Certified Collaborative Practitioner (OACP/IACP) ODR Specialist - Certificate in Online Dispute Resolution (FDRIO) Integrative Law Practitioner & Conscious Contracts® Practitioner
"Conflict does not have to define a family's future. With thoughtful guidance, informed decision-making, and respectful dialogue, even the most difficult transitions can become opportunities for lasting resolution." - Aubrey J. Sherman
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Aubrey J. Sherman offers a thoughtful and experienced approach to family law—one grounded in skilled advocacy, collaborative and practical problem solving, and solutions designed with his clients' futures in mind. He takes the time to understand the people behind the legal issues, while providing the knowledge, strategic advice and advocacy clients need to move forward with confidence.
Aubrey believes that strong advocacy and an approachable, resolution-focused style should go hand in hand.
A commitment to education and mentorship. Aubrey has contributed to the education and professional development of others through teaching, mentoring, and speaking engagements in family law, mediation, negotiation and dispute resolution. His involvement in legal education reflects his commitment to sharing his experience and contributing to the next generation of legal professionals.
A thoughtful approach to complex disputes. Aubrey brings extensive family law experience, strategic insight and an empathetic approach to complex and high-conflict matters. He helps clients understand their options, assess what matters most, and determine the most appropriate path forward.
Whether you are facing conflict with a family member, planning your estate for the next generation, or seeking a more respectful way to resolve a dispute relating to separation or parenting, Aubrey provides knowledgeable family law, divorce, parenting, and estate planning guidance focused on protecting your legal interests while considering the people and relationships that matter most.
Family law is about more than knowing the law. It is about understanding people, relationships, competing priorities, and what is at stake for the future.
Aubrey brings over 20 years of experience in family law advocacy together with extensive training and accreditation in family mediation, negotiation, collaborative practice, and conflict resolution. His goal is to help clients understand their options, make informed decisions, and choose a path forward that protects what matters most to them and their families.
A recognized leader in family dispute resolution, Aubrey is an alumnus of Harvard Law School's Program on Negotiation and Mediation, an Accredited Family Mediator (AccFM), an Accredited Intergenerational (Elder) Mediator (AccIM), and a Fellow of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP). He also holds a conflict management and mediation certificate from the Institute of Peace and Conflict Studies at Conrad Grebel University College at the University of Waterloo and dispute resolution certification from the ADR Institute of Ontario. Aubrey has completed specialized training in Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) and domestic violence screening.
Aubrey uses his expertise across both consensual dispute resolution and family litigation to assist clients to understand the law and to consider which resolution process will help them achieve their goals.
Aubrey's objective is to assist his clients to make thoughtful decisions about how to resolve their disputes while considering the legal, financial, personal, and family consequences of those decisions.
His approach is grounded in the belief that conflict can change when we move from fighting to win toward curiosity, understanding and shared problem solving. The goal is not to avoid difficult conversations, but to approach them differently—with perspective, patience and a willingness to find a path toward resolution.
Aubrey works with his clients to move beyond an approach focused on winning the immediate dispute and instead consider what a workable resolution looks like for the future. Through counsel-assisted negotiation, family mediation, and collaborative divorce, he helps clients have difficult conversations, understand each other's concerns, identify what truly matters, and develop practical solutions.
Aubrey takes the time to understand the circumstances surrounding each client's legal problem. Family disputes are rarely just about one issue. A parenting disagreement may be connected to financial concerns. A property dispute may affect long-term security. Decisions made during separation may shape family relationships for years to come.
His role is to assist his clients to make thoughtful decisions with both the immediate problem and the future in mind.
Where appropriate, Aubrey works alongside financial professionals, parenting and mental health professionals, child specialists, tax advisors, accountants, corporate counsel, and other trusted professionals. This collaborative and integrative approach provides clients with a more complete understanding of the issues they are facing and the available options to resolve disputes.
For parents, separation is not simply a legal process. It is a major transition for the entire family.
Aubrey takes a child-focused approach to parenting disputes and encourages parents to consider what will provide their children with stability, clarity, and where appropriate, a healthy relationship with both parents.
He assists parents to address parenting responsibilities, decision-making, schedules, communication, and financial support, including the development of practical Parenting Plans that can provide greater certainty as families adjust to life after separation.
Aubrey's intention is not simply to resolve today's disagreement, but to help parents consider arrangements that may work as their children and circumstances change.
Not every family dispute can be resolved outside the courtroom.
When court proceedings become necessary, Aubrey provides strategic advocacy while continuing to focus on practical solutions and the long-term interests of his clients. Aubrey balances strong advocacy with practical strategy, considering cost, timing, and the impact of litigation on each family.
Aubrey brings more than two decades of experience representing clients in complex family law litigation to the benefit of his clients, including disputes involving property and asset division, support, parenting and decision-making for children, and matters involving corporations, family businesses, trusts, estates, and significant assets.
Aubrey's practice is built around a guiding belief: good legal advice is about more than knowing the law—it is about understanding people.
Family disputes are rarely only legal matters. Separation and divorce can involve financial decisions, parenting concerns, relationships and significant life transitions.
Aubrey's two decades of extensive experience in negotiation, family mediation, collaborative practice, and family litigation provides his clients with the benefit of a broader perspective when deciding how to approach their legal challenges. He works with clients to understand their options, assess the risks and opportunities, and make informed decisions about the best approach for their situation and long-term goals.
Aubrey's intention is not simply to resolve a legal dispute. It is to help clients move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and a solution that works not only today, but for the future.
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Aubrey assists individuals and families with estate planning, including, wills, trusts, and powers of attorney.
Effective estate planning may involve family relationships, business interests, personal values, wealth transfer, and decisions about future care. Aubrey helps clients consider these issues and create estate plans that provide greater clarity for themselves and their families.
For business owners, he assists with succession planning, working with accountants, corporate counsel, and other professional advisors where appropriate to address ownership and leadership transitions.
Aubrey also assists estate trustees and executors with estate administration, including probate, court applications, and the legal responsibilities involved in administering an estate.
Aubrey's commitment to family law extends beyond his work with clients. Aubrey is a Faculty Advisor for Osgoode Hall Law School's Family Law Practice Skills Certificate Program where he provides mentoring to students in family law in areas of advocacy, client management, and working with opposing counsel. He is Vice-President of the Ontario Association for Family Mediation. He also served for a decade on the Board of Directors at Family and Children's Services of the Waterloo Region, contributing to governance, strategic planning, executive leadership recruitment, and equity, diversity, and inclusion initiatives.
Osgoode Hall Law School Professional Development recently featured Aubrey and his role as a Faculty Advisor with the Certificate in Family Law Practice Skills. Read more about it here.
Aubrey has been annually recognized by ThreeBestRated® and has received multiple Platinum and Gold awards through Community Votes Kitchener-Waterloo for family law, estate law, and mediation. These recognitions reflect Aubrey's longstanding commitment to thoughtful legal guidance, strategic advocacy, and effective dispute resolution.
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A little bit more about AubreyOutside the office, Aubrey enjoys an active and intentional life centered on wellness, creativity, and community. He enjoys group fitness, yoga and mindfulness, and values time spent entertaining family and friends. He is also a regular supporter of the Kitchener Farmers' Market, enjoys tending to his garden, exploring antique markets on weekend trips, and taking on home and interior design projects.
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